Maricopa County Sheriff's Office

'I Felt Like I Met My Soul Mate': Woman Accused Of Sending 65,000 Text Messages After Online Match Up

May 11, 2018 - 8:33 am

PARADISE VALLEY, AZ (WBBM NEWSRADIO) -- What started as a match on an online dating website, lead to stalking, threats and a bizarre obsession.

Paradise Valley police arrested Jacqueline Ades, 31, Tuesday on suspicion of stalking and harassing a man she met online, according to Maricopa County court documents. Court records state Ades, 31, of Phoenix, visited the man's home and office while flooding his phone with threatening text messages. She began stalking the man last summer shortly after meeting him through a dating website, according to the documents, which were submitted to the court by police.

Ades excused of sending the man 65,000 text message tried to explain her actions in a jailhouse interview Thursday.

Police say 31-year-old Jacqueline Claire Ades of Phoenix met the victim online and went on one date with him before she began sending him thousands of texts, breaking into his home, and showing up at his workplace claiming to be his wife.

"I love him," she said. “I felt like I met my soul mate. I thought we would just do what everybody else did and we would get married and everything would be fine. But that’s not what happened.”

What did happen, according to police, was a series of encounters and messages stretching back to last summer. Ades allegedly sent the victim thousands of text messages, many laced with threats. “Oh, what I would do w ur blood!” she allegedly once wrote. “I’d wanna bathe in it.”

In total Ades is accused of sending 65,000 texts.

“That’s it?” Ades said on Thursday when a reporter asked her about the number of messages. “To me it seemed like more.”

“Isn’t that kind of excessive?” she was asked.

“Love is an excessive thing,” Ades replied.

During her jailhouse interview Thursday, Ades was asked why she sent the victim so many texts.

"Because it made me find out all my information," she said. "Loving him selflessly brought me his information. Because everybody just wants to take. But if you just give and you don't stop giving, you will all of a sudden receive a lot."

Police say some of those messages Ades sent the victim were threatening, and included:

"Don't ever try to leave me... I'll kill you... I don't wanna be a murderer!"

"I hope you die... you rotten filthy Jew... lololol Im like the new Hitler… man was a genius,”

"I'd wear your fascia 'n the top of your skull 'n your hands 'n feet."

"Oh, what I would do w/your blood... I'd wanna bathe in it."

The situation allegedly escalated last week, when Ades showed up at the victim's office in Scottsdale. She claimed to be his wife. Four days later, police arrested Ades at her home, according to the police report. She is facing charges of threatening, stalking, harassment and failure to appear. She is being held without bond. She does not have an attorney yet.

During her interviews this week, Ades would answer a question or two, then deflect the next one.

She veered from topic to topic, rambling about Einstein, the Dead Sea, the birth chart of Jesus and the symbolism of the markings on a dollar bill. When pressed about her actions, she repeatedly refused to discuss the allegations against her. At one point, she told a reporter, "I don't want to talk about that. You have negative energy."

Ades was asked directly, "Are you crazy?"

"No," she replied. "I am the person that discovered love."

When confronted about the fact that 65,000 text messages seemed more threatening than loving, she replied, "When you find love, everything is not perfect. I love him."

Ades said she was no threat to her alleged victim.

“No! Oh, my God, I love him so much,” she said. “I just want to love him so much, that’s it. And if he doesn’t like it, I’ll go home and I’ll love my ex-boyfriend.”

Ades is set to appear in court May 15. She is being held without bond.

Read the full police report below.

Accused Stalker Police Report by Shannon Margaret Blum on Scribd